I’m trying to go into things with the best possible intentions. No judgement. No preconceived notions. And positive attitude. So when my Hawaiian ohana says “I’ve got an amazing guy for you to meet! Blah blah blah blah blah and he’s Asian and he’s got kind of a bad foo man choo beard going on.” and I say “oh okay auntie sounds good.” when your single you’ve got to realize that family does have your best interest at heart and only want to see you happy or happier. So you put on a smile and deal with crap like foo man choos.
All in all last night was a good time hanging out till 3am with 4 local boys and some Germans and Aussies we befriended at the bar. But I don’t think I’m ever going to be into tiny Asian men. Lesson learned and props to you Jess, you are growing up and have a story to tell.